Sunday, January 24, 2010

News flash for upcoming events

February will be the true test of what is to come......Tuesday Feb 2nd are the lab tests then....wed the pet scan.. then tues. Feb 9th is the Doctor appt with the results of the tests and to find out whether Roger goes in for more Chemo or not....He is such a patient man and is taking all of this unlike no other.....He never blows up....I just don't know how he does it.....Roger's son is here looking to move here if he can land a job and also if he can sell his home in Idaho and find one here . He is looking to move back home......time will tell., as in all things in our life right now. thanks again for all your support and for your friendship.... we truly apprecaite it.....fun times at poker with our Mesquite friends...you guys are all awesome......
TBC everyone asks what they can do....well.........PRAY PRAY PRAY....thank you so much

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Maybe, Is the word

Roger thought that he was going in for the last of the Chemo treatments today.....and hopefully that is the case.....we must all think and pray that in two weeks when the pet scan is done that results are what we want them to be and there is no progression of this horrible cancer in any of Roger's organs. The Doctor will determine from the pet scan whether to continue the chemo and also from the blood tests. Roger was so hoping that this was it, but unfortunately his fight continues. He is a little down, but continues to keep his chin up and so very much wants to not have to go to the doctor so much and to live a simple normal life without pain and drugs. I will keep positive that this can be accomplished. It is such a long and trying process. It really keeps one humble and wanting just the simple things in life and to wake up in the morning to know that it will be a good day.....the definition of a good day is up to each individual. Mine is
Please Lord let me laugh and love and be thankful for whatever I have or even what I don't have........goodnight Dianne

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Smiling Doctor

Yes, Dr Barnett was smiling when he came into the room on Tuesday for Roger's Appointment. He is so very pleased with the way Roger is responding to his treatment. Chemo every three weeks until late January....Zomita for the bones and Hormone therapy. The combination they have going right now has even made the doctor have words of encourgement like "remmission?"
We have not heard any words of encouragement since this whole thing began 4 1/2 years ago. It was music to our ears......Jeff and Jolene have a very strong faith as I know a lot of your do. Roger and I are trting to have one. The road has been a difficult one and we are not complaining. The power of prayer is so powerful that before Jeff and Jolene left our house from Christmas we all gathered in our kitchen for Jolene to say her prayer for Roger and her belief that there could be a Christmas Miracle for us if we would just ask. I feel there was and is. Thank you Jolene for having the faith and the courage to ask....I was afraid to, but you were not.
Thank you everyone for YOUR prayers and thoughts for Roger. we depend on you for that and that is the greatest gift anyone of us could ever have now and anytime in our lives.....I am deeply humbled and thankful for this.......you just don't know what this means at this point in our lives here on earth......Roger is very grateful, but still has a long hard road to bare....and I know he will do it with dignity and strength, because that is who he is.....my Rock.......Happy New Year to all......2010....has a good ring to it.....Love Dianne and Roger

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Merry Merry Christmas 2009

And I mean that from the bottom of my heart. It has been, as most of you know, quite the year for Roger and I and our family. I'll begin with Roger. He is undergoing Chemotherapy and will continue until the end of January. His prostate cancer came back and landed in his spine and his left arm. This all started last January. Needless to say it has been one doctors appoinment after another. His oncologist, as of the other day said, with a smile on his face, that the Chemo was bringing Roger's PSA level down and so they will continue treatment so at least he can be comfortable and not in so much pain. We know that it is not a cure, but we will take any kind of good news we can get at this point.
I was bought out of my Dental Assisting School in Niwot as of Sept of this year and started my own....I now have, with a very great working partner this time, Academy for Dental Assisting Careers (ADAC) in Longmont, Greeley and Littleton.. I am still working two days a week for the Dental Office in Niwot and do enjoy it. You just cannot retire me yet, I guess it is just in my blood to work work work.
Ken is in Idaho and is selling cars and thinking of maybe moving back to God's country(COLORADO). His girls Kenna (9) and Jade(7) are in Utah with their mom, but get to be with Ken on Holidays and Summer. We got to see them this summer at Roger's family reunion of which was at our house.
Chad, Tina and Colton and the newest addition Colbie Marie are in Firestone, CO. It is not that far away so I get my Colbie (7 mo.) and Colton (8 3/4) fix as much as I can when I am not working. Colbie was very premature, but is very happy, healthy baby girl and we love her and her big brother. (He can now say at school with pride he has a sibling)
Jeff, Jolene, Jaelyn (4) and Jax( 2) have moved from Texas to Grand Junction, CO. They were able to sell their house in Tx. quickly and Jeff can live anywhere as long as he is near a major airport. He does some travelng with his job (The Empowered Network), but can also work from his home office. Jolene and the kids are adjusting being back in the cold and snow...yes even in Grand Junction.
Aunt Wilma and Gert are doing well, also. Aunt Wilma (85) still lives in her own home, under the watchful eyes of her great neighbors and us. Gert (91) is still amazing us with her vitality. She just got back from being in California with Roger's brother and his wife Doris for Thanksgiving. Plane trip and all, it was a good trip for her she said.
Thanking everyone who has been by our side or prayed for us this year and wishing all of you and your families the best Christmas ever....I know that we will. We are so fortunate to have the greatest kids, grandkids anyone could hope for.
FAMILY>FRIENDS>LOVE that is what it's all about ! ! ! ! !

Love and many Blessings for the New Year
Dianne and Roger

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Joyful .....make a noise ! ! ! !

I will shout out loud that prayer and love will and is there for you if you just ask......
Today it was news that we all wanted to hear.....the Doctor came in with a big smile on his face and said ....."Roger and Dianne it is good news"....Your PSA is down and that is what we are measuring to see if the Chemo is doing its job....It is and we are so ever thankful and joyous. We have waited four years to hear some good news and today will ring out in my mind forever....Roger is still having to endure the pain and anquish of Chemoptherapy, but at least it seems worth it right now....Still we know that it isn't a cure, but it sure beats the news that it isn't doing anything so go home and prepare......We still have some things to do and see before we give it up.......anyway...this is my point of view...maybe someday you will actually hear from Roger and his point of view....until then...keep those prayers and all the love you can muster up...for you ,for your families and for... yes... Roger. Thank you and have a great Holiday....in fact make it one of your best Holidays ever....I know that we will...........take care Dianne and Roger

Monday, November 30, 2009

Blood test TBA

Roger had his blood test and Zomita and Accupuncture today...He seemed pretty good when I came home from work....He ate really good, but we will see what tomorrow brings...We won't know anything regarding his blood test until next week, but will keep you informed when we get the news....thanks for hanging with us...it means a lot......Dianne

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Monday is nearing

Monday, Roger will get a blood test that will determine whether the Chemo is doing any good. They will see if his PSA level is dropping.... as it got into the hundreds the last time they checked and when the Doctor started him on Chemotherapy. He will also receive another IV with Zomita, a bone strenghtener to help the weak spots of cancer up and down his spine. He has lost some weight, but still eats pretty well and seems to be sleeping as good as can be expected. His beard is thinning and the hair on his head is gone....that is why God made hats... right?
Well, he let me put up a tree and put out lights for Christmas and the grandkids and it looks so very pretty. If you get a chance to drive by or stop by we would love that. Just want everyone to have a blessed Holiday season...especially this one for whatever reason......will keep you all posted on the results as soon as we know anything....