good days bad days

Good day because our little premature grandaughter is doing ok for now and Roger tried today to get off his pain med and found that he could not....went to his moms for dinner and right after dinner he was not doing well and we came home.....his pain is real and what is really bad is that he has to wait so long for his surgery....that is the way of the VA for ya...paperwork and when THEY have time fo you and only then....I have tried to bark loud and nobody seems to hear but Roger...and then he trys to calm me down...it is horrible to watch someone that you love in that much anguish and pain for so long now.....all of youask what you can do....and my response is just be his friend and pray like you never prayed before.....thank you ...unitl next time Dianne